The #1 reason why most relationships don’t work. Not understanding what LOVE really means.

LOVE it’s not only my last name, but its a word that is universal and all 7 billion and counting people on this earth want and need it in their lives. It took me close to 30yrs of my life to understand what the True meaning of LOVE was. Many failed relationships and going through the ups and downs in trying to find the true meaning of the word LOVE. People wait for one day out the year Valentines day to confess their love and appreciation for that special someone in their lives. Why wait one day our of the year to let that special someone in your life or people in your life know that you love them and appreciate them? The following is what I know LOVE is truly about and after reading this blog tell the person or people that truly mean something to you that You love them:

Love is attentive, caring, non-judgemental and open, both to what others say and to what others cant say.
Love takes time, it needs a history of giving and receiving, laughing and crying.
Love is doing everything you can to help build whatever dreams and goals your mate has.
Love never promises instant gratification, only ultimate fulfillments.
Love means believing in someone, in something. It means a willingness to struggle, to work, to suffer and rejoice.
Love involves much careful and active listening. Its doing whatever needs to be done and saving whatever will promote others happiness, security and well being.
Love hurts sometimes. But Love is also firm, but when needed it is tender.
Love is reliable, its a choice and commitment to others true and lasting happiness.
Love does not attach conditions, genuine love is always free.
Love realize and accepts that there will be disagreements and many emotions.
Love encourages freedom of elf. It shares positive and negative reaction to warm and cold feelings.
Love, ULTIMATE LOVE, will never reject its better half. It is the first to encourage and the last to condemn
Love will stand the test of time and LOVE ENDURES ALL THINGS.

So if your blessed to have LOVE in your life with that special someone and they are worth all the ups and downs that come with LOVE. Be happy and know You must do your best to keep and have the love you deserve in your life!

Mentor Love!